We all have experienced what it feels when we are hurt... most of the time we talk to ourselves & ask one question “Why me?”
We derive lot all of answers but could never get around the logic as to why did we get hurt at the first place.
I have been hurt multiple times; unfortunately I don’t have a permanent or temporary cure for it.
But I have discovered two facts about hurt:
1. If you have a heart, you will get hurt
2. No one intentionally will ever try to hurt you, it’s all accidental
Having said that, today I am hurt...so here I am expressing all that’s going in my heart & mind.
As I was hurt, I screamed out loud on streets caring a damn what will people think or say about me.
Has redefined few thoughts & relationships for me.
Lost control over my delivery of words.
Actions, few that I would never ever imaging doing in my wildest dreams.
So here I am HURT!
So what next?
Here are few options that we all have when we get Hurt:
- Forgive but never forget
- Let go & Forget
- Giveup on expectations
- Give-up the thing that hurt
- Ignore & take all that happens as a bonus
- Shield your heart so that when it again happens, u can take it as normal as you could
- Accept everything
Well for now – my safest option is to give-up on things that hurt me. I choose to stay happy & I will embrace all that’s going to give me happiness.
Someone once advised me – If you are hurt, keep calm & never express how you feel.
I don’t know how to follow this advice, all I know is I am human, I am authentic, I am very well aware about my feelings. I will express so far I am doing justice to my feelings...after all its all about living & not just being alive.