Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Technology for Women Entrepreneurs

I had an awesome time talking at DevFestW last week. Got to meet many amazing, inspiring women entrepreneurs..
My talk was to inspire them to embrace technology & find technology cool and not complicated.
I had the following quick 5 messages for women entrepreneurs about technology:
  • Technology is gonna be an important tool which will help you make your start-up disruptive – embrace it
  • Keep yourself updated with technology jargons
  • To understand technology you need not be from computer science, you just need to be passionate
  • Inspire your daughters and tell them that technology is cool, create more female role models as we need more women in technology
  • Contribute back to the community all that you learn/receive spread knowledge & love to receive more

Friday, March 15, 2013

Women in Technology - DevFestW 2013

Women in Technology from Bhavya Siddappa

My slides for tomorrow’s DevFestW talk about Women in Technology as I plan to have a dialog about:
- Why we need more women in technology 
- What are the current challenges faced by women  
- Various roles women can play in Technology  
- Getting more women active in tech communities
- Lean forward messages
More women in technology would be good for technology and innovation, for the women who are currently there and for the world.  

See you’ll tomorrow to explore & witness how technology gets prettier, beautiful… glamorous, the way it was never seen before :)

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Handling Compliments

Ask my friends or colleagues & they will tell you that they are scared to compliment me but royally enjoy teasing me.
Here’s the confession: “I am hopeless when it comes to handling compliments”.
Handling compliments in social life is part of conversation; I feel awkward and handle them poorly. I deflect or dismiss compliments. For example:
You compliment me on my externals/apparel and I would respond, "Oh, this color is all wrong for me."
You compliment on an excellent report, and I would say, "I should have finished it sooner."  
You call me beautiful & I might just hit you.

Well lately I have figured out that this can’t continue, it’s a sign of emotional maturity to be able to accept compliments gracefully. However, I've found it's a skill that is not always learned when growing up. For various cultural reasons, some families think that complimenting their children will make them prideful and "give them a big head." So even if a child excels in some activity like sports or academics, parents don't give a compliment on a job well done. As a result, those children don't learn to be comfortable receiving compliments.

This is what I have been practising off lately: when someone gives me a genuine compliment, I say something like "Thank you very much," or "I appreciate your saying that." Such a response is complementary (completes the exchange) to the compliment (praise.)

Even if someone gives you a less-than-genuine compliment (flattery), you can still be gracious and say "Thank you." Don't challenge the person by saying "You don't really mean that, do you?" Trust me, I know it really takes lots of guts to compliment someone & if that’s not acknowledge well - it’s like disrespecting & hurting them.

Best way to handle compliments is by keeping in mind that it just lasts for that min, you got to start working much harder the other min to retain it. Compliments add more expectations & makes one conscious, but if you learn to be comfortable in your own would be just easy to smile & say Thank You!