We all have experienced what it feels when we
are hurt... most of the time we talk to ourselves & ask one question “Why
me?”
We derive lot all of answers but could never
get around the logic as to why did we get hurt at the first place.
I have been hurt multiple times; unfortunately
I don’t have a permanent or temporary cure for it.
But I
have discovered two facts about hurt:
1. If
you have a heart, you will get hurt
2. No
one intentionally will ever try to hurt you, it’s all accidental
Having said that, today I am hurt...so here I
am expressing all that’s going in my heart & mind.
As I was hurt, I screamed out loud on streets
caring a damn what will people think or say about me.
Has redefined few thoughts & relationships
for me.
Lost control over my delivery of words.
Actions, few that I would never ever imaging
doing in my wildest dreams.
So here I am HURT!
So what next?
Here are few options that we all have when we
get Hurt:
- Forgive but never forget
- Let go & Forget
- Giveup on expectations
- Give-up the thing that hurt
- Ignore & take all that happens as a bonus
- Shield your heart so that when it again happens, u can take it as normal as you could
- Accept everything
Well for now – my safest option is to give-up
on things that hurt me. I choose to stay happy & I will embrace all that’s
going to give me happiness.
Someone once advised me – If you are hurt,
keep calm & never express how you feel.
I don’t know how to follow this advice, all I
know is I am human, I am authentic, I am very well aware about my feelings. I
will express so far I am doing justice to my feelings...after all its all about
living & not just being alive.
