Saturday, May 8, 2010

What is Love ?

Whenever I meet her I used to ask her “What’s Love ?”

She said, let me tell u my story, and may be that should answer your question.

BTW who is “she” ?

She is the true heroine of the coming story, most beautiful women I ever met, mother of 16 yrs old son, an IT professional. She hardly talks to ppl, used to silently observer me. We first became friends & now I call her “Dee”.

She was the only daughter of a rich farmer from a small village, where girl’s are married off at the age of 16. So was she too married to a farmer of the same village with lot of dowry. Before this, she had got a marriage proposal from an AP University BE gold medalist who fell in love with her when he first saw her 7th Standard photograph. As he was from a different cast her dad rejected the proposal. After her marriage, this lover of hers went insane and lost control of his life. He didn’t took up his Singapore job and was boycotted by his family.

After her marriage she forgot what happiness means, she was treated as a salve and was asked to give up her studies. 2 yrs passed & she gave birth to a knowledgeable son. When she visited her home town, this lover of hers came to see her. He just said “How are you ? I will always want to see you happy.” That’s it and he left.

Her eyes filled with tears, one eye with the pain of loosing him and another eye with the happiness of finding a true lover.

Worst was on her way, her husband & in-laws got transfer property paper forcefully signed from her & had plans to kill her. It was 3 pm, she ran on the road to save her life. Reached her parents home where she had left her son & collected pieces of her broken heart to start a new beginning. Completed her graduation, took up computer classes & started her career in a MNC. This period was a struggle for her, but was possible due to her parents support.

Today she is in her early 30s, beautiful as ever, taking care of her 3 children [Mom, dad & her son].Has never seen what happiness is like, takes all pressure, pain & sorrow just to see her children happy. I dedicate the mother’s day to this lady.

Wherever she is, she is always looking out for her mad lover “Ramchandraju”. She is still looking for him & wishes to see him at-least once. That’s true love, as she believes wherever he would be he would be praying & wishing for her good.

I found my answer for the question, which I used to always ponder about.

“What is love ?“

It’s the space that we give him in our heart & worship him. Pray for his goodness & wishing him to be happy wherever he is. It’s not about talk, touch or meets but its about feeling him from within. It is pure & divine. You are ready to die 100 times, just to live a movement together. Love is patient, love is kind. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.


11 comments:

Rajat said...

Absolutely lovely write-up.. curious to know whether it is a fiction or not.

Bhavya said...

@Rajat:
Thanks!. Wish it was :(

Vinod said...

very good write-up abt love

Kalyan said...

Love starts when story ends..............

Faisal said...

The definition of love is great.. to d point of being ideal.. an ideal definition..
but there is nothin ideal.. everything everyone has fallacies, weakness.. d creature called true love is an extinct species.. well almost..
I think d definition truly defines the love b/w a mother and her child.. not b/w a man and a woman...
Happy Mothers day to all the loving moms across the world.. and thanks to God for making such a passionate things as a Mothers heart..

Bhavana said...

She's truelly great..May she find her true love again!

Kranthi said...

She is really great.. An inspiration.. I pray God to give her more strength.. Wishing her good luck and Ram where are you dude.... Hope you see her once and make her feel happy...

Chris said...

Nice one Bhavya..! But is it the real story you narrated here?

Bhavya said...

@Vinod: Thanks! that's what I believe in :)

@Kalyan: Bro, Yaa, U have felt it :)

@Bhavana: Amen!

Bhavya said...

@Faisal : Thanks, not only is the definition ideal, but love itself make people ideal who fall in it. Love definition does not change from relationship to relationship.

@Kranthi: Thanks for the prayers, I too pray the same. Amen!

@Chris: Yes, unfortunately it a true love story, which helped me to understand love.

shailesh said...

nice post