Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Ohh People Ohh People

Well I was half asleep, and I woke up just to write this post.
The though behind this post is to share what I have felt & observed about people in general. Today one of my friend just made a statement to me saying, “****xyzzzz***** come one Bhavya, you have so many friends around”.

Yes, it true that in last couple of years I have met so many people, connected with them, shared & felt them. I have met people from different countries, cast, religion, state, language. With this believe I can say that indeed every individual is different, some are common, but the fact is all of them who claim themselves to be human have the following in them:
-       - Painful heart which is scrambled, scratched & broken by their dear ones
-       - Living with lots of regrets
-       - Wearing a Mask, what they show is never similar to what’s beneath them
-       - Selfish. What’s in for me? is the question they always ask themselves
-       - Prefer being closer to people who have fame/ money or are very positive towards life
-       - Judgmental towards others behaviours, attitude & outer look
-       - Desire for beauty, sex, happiness, fame & money
-       - Each act or reaction is backed with a selfish moto for self-benefits
-       - Fear expressing themselves
-       - Unsure dreams & desires
-       - Want to be always understood, happy, loved and complimented
-       - Get jealous

Youll are free to comment or argue on the above, but that’s what makes u, me, us human and it’s all fair. You can connect with any person only if you wish and not because you need to figure out commonality between each. Spiritual, emotional & intellectual are 3 broad categories in which you can easily connect with people.
The only rule that I follow religiously is accept people the way they are without any expectations. Isn’t it simple? :-)


Shiva said...

Looks like all of these are related in one way or the other to a need for "Individualism" and "Identity" as opposed to Collectivism and affinity to communities...

Sweta Sinha said...

hi Bhavya,

whatever you have written is just true.....and i liked that you penned down it...i will be waiting for next blog...
keep it up!!